tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4048361774489508089.post5003569172295717097..comments2023-10-29T15:39:55.177+05:30Comments on BRAIN BALONEY: Undo itSrishtihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04700351745397925533noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4048361774489508089.post-40550120215069052442009-11-13T00:58:16.278+05:302009-11-13T00:58:16.278+05:30My best friend's mother passed away three year...My best friend's mother passed away three years ago.<br /><br />She wudnt stop crying and I had no idea how to comfort her.<br /><br />I ran thru what I shud say in my head, "Sorry." "It'll get better." "I know how you feel."<br /><br />What cud I have said? They were all lies. And mere words wud have made no difference anyway.<br /><br />So I just hugged her and we sat there holding hands and she just cried and put her head on my shoulder.<br /><br />But it did get better. <br /><br />She's almost the same now. But the sadness marks you. I wish I had better advice.<br /><br />Take care of L. Dont be afraid of his grief or embarrassed by it. Thats all.Tangled up in blue...https://www.blogger.com/profile/09863311350462955038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4048361774489508089.post-29188238695058270952009-11-12T22:43:21.268+05:302009-11-12T22:43:21.268+05:30*hugs*
you should go and meet ur friend.
rest I ...*hugs*<br /><br />you should go and meet ur friend. <br />rest I suck at this myself!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14121037540795214765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4048361774489508089.post-61882399994431940802009-11-12T12:58:55.300+05:302009-11-12T12:58:55.300+05:30@Ketan: I'm not that close to L.
I just can...@Ketan: I'm not that close to L.<br />I just can't get the image out of my head. The image of him laughing.<br />Thanks for your help. :)<br /><br />@Soin: Of course, but I do hope that I never go through it.Srishtihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04700351745397925533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4048361774489508089.post-60810366750418445862009-11-12T00:40:55.833+05:302009-11-12T00:40:55.833+05:30its a bit weird feeling.. only if u go through you...its a bit weird feeling.. only if u go through you will know the weirdness.. i went thought that.. wasnt good.. but its all old stuff.. all is well that ends..freeSoinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05708544526844237025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4048361774489508089.post-78387044257154534612009-11-11T21:50:53.182+05:302009-11-11T21:50:53.182+05:30Hello Srishti!
I understand your predicament. Whe...Hello Srishti!<br /><br />I understand your predicament. When we can't console someone who's suffered a huge loss. It almost feels guilty to try to console as it is not <b>us</b> who would've suffered the loss.<br /><br />For me it becomes a kind of guilt. And this 'guilt' is something I've never been able to learn to handle.<br /><br />If you are close to L, possibly your being close to him in such times will only give strength that maybe not <b>everything</b> about his World has changed, and few things have still remained the same, from where he can derive the strength to re-embrace his life.<br /><br />If he does not consider you close to him, I'm not sure if your presence will help him.<br /><br />Hope this helps. TC.Ketanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02622410643454108685noreply@blogger.com